I'm not entirely sure I agree with all of it, but most of it seems to be right on. Not so sure about the part on those I am attracted to. Anyways, it's a fun little question thing.
The Keys to Your Heart |
You are attracted to those who have a split personality - cold as ice on the outside but hot as fire in the heart. |
In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored. |
You'd like to your lover to think you are stylish and alluring. |
You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please. |
Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets. |
Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment. |
You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred. |
In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily. |
The Keys to Your Heart (with commentary by joe)
You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free. (this is generally true, independence has always been an admirable trait to me, somebody who wouldn't want to hang off of my arm 24 hours a day/seven days a week)
In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored. (this is also true, a sense of humor is almost a must, somebody who isn't disgusted by my poop jokes and someone not afraid to tell her own poop jokes)
You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change. (I think that in every relationship I'll be in, I will never cheat on my companion, because it's a terrible thing to do)
You would be forced to break up with someone who was insecure and in constant need of reassurance. (this is also kind of true, although kind of hypocritical of me because I was rather insecure in the last relationship I was in... which might be the reason it didn't go too well)
Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with. (this is pretty important to me, I kind of don't see the point to working at a relationship if I don't think it's going to last, and it's not really a relationship if people dont' work at it)
Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment. (this kind of goes back to what I said before, cheating is... well... dishonorable, and disgraceful, and I think lesser of myself whenever I do something that I feel isn't good or honorable. I actually tend to dwell on things for a really long time and I don't think I'd be able to live with myself if I were to cheat on somebody, it's like the ultimate form of spitting in somebody's face and saying that they mean nothing to you, and I couldn't ever do that)
You think of marriage as something precious. (marriage is, in fact, precious, and although I'm not religious at all, I am strongly against divorce; it shows a lack of strength and willpower and the ability to work through problems. some people might disagree with me, but if two people get divorced, then I think they never truly loved each other in the first place.)
You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.
In this moment, you think of love as something you can get or discard anytime. You're feeling self centered. (this is also very true at the moment, since I've started slimming down and looking a little better, more people have started... paying attention to me, and I kind of feel like I have more options than I've ever had. The wording though I don't agree with, I don't see love as something that be discarded at any time, but the relationship leading up to it can be discarded. If a relationship doesn't feel right, if you know that you aren't right for a person despite certain physical attractions, a relationship can and should be discarded.)